Meet the team: Tessa

In our final 'meet the team' section, we hear from Annabel's best friend Tessa, who also happens to be the Annabel's Angels secretary. Take it away Tessa.... Hi, I’m Tessa and I live in Littleover, Derby with my husband Chris and two cheeky young daughters, Charlotte (7) and Isobel (very nearly 4). I was born in Derby and have lived here for most of my life apart from when I was studying at University. I work as a Social Worker/Care Manager in the Younger Adults Team at the Council House in Derby. I have worked there for 14 years and now feel I am part of the furniture! I find the work very rewarding, challenging but stressful!

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How did you get involved with Annabel's Angels?

I met Simon through Annabel who was my closest friend, having met her whilst we were both studying ‘A’ levels at Wilmorton College. We developed a special friendship having a mutual sense of humour and zest for life, sharing lots of laughs along the way. I feel so fortunate having being part of her life as she was such a beautiful and selfless person. I was devastated when she passed away and I miss her every day.  But what I have got which will never be taken away from me are the fond memories I have of her. Both Annabel and Simon have been a large and significant part of my life and since Annabel’s tragic death Simon and I have become closer friends. When Simon asked me to be part of Annabel’s Angels I jumped at the chance because I wanted to be part of such a worthy cause, helping and supporting people affected by cancer which also keeps Annabel’s memory alive.

I am so proud and privileged to be part of this group and this also allows me/AA’s the opportunity to continue Annabel’s legacy, continuing to support people affected by cancer like Annabel selflessly did when she was suffering pain and undergoing treatment.

Tessa AA How involved are you/what do you do?

I am the secretary of Annabel’s Angels and I try to get involved as much as possible in events and meetings. I feel very honoured to be given this role and even though I am not actively involved like other people are (who I find very inspirational), I feel I am doing as much as I can to make Annabel Angel’s a success. I would love to be more involved but I find it difficult juggling work and family and I feel I haven’t got the knowledge and expertise like other members have. I type minutes of our bi-monthly meetings and also support Simon as much as I can in offering help and advice, participating in fundraising events, presentations and development meetings with other agencies.

 

Give an example of what you’ve done and what you’ve learnt since getting involved.

I do as much as I can to become involved in any fundraising opportunities as I find it extremely rewarding, enjoyable and fulfilling. I take part in all that I can; including fundraising bag packs, bucket collections at Pride Park, setting up and co-ordinating the team for the Race for Life last July, and helping towards the charity auction in Derby. To be part of this group has made me realise how many people have or know people who have been affected by cancer. I hear lots of inspirational stories how even cancer sufferers like Annabel have reached out to support others. This I feel has helped me in becoming a better and less selfish person, and I've learnt not to take life for granted. I also lost my Mum to cancer last year and in reflecting upon this it makes me more determined to develop this group further and for it to become a successful charity.

 

How do you see Annabel’s Angels progressing?

Annabel’s Angels has been set up since May 2013.  It has been a very successful year, considering how small the group is, and it's very positive to hear how nationwide the group has become. This I feel would not have been made possible without Simon's dedication and enthusiasm. I wish I shared his traits! He and other members have driven this group to be a success and I strongly believe that it will continue to thrive. Becoming a fully registered charitable trust will help us thrive even more too. It will give us more credence and illustrate how dedicated we are in aiming to improve the quality of lives of people affected by cancer and their carers. I have every belief that we will become a successful charity and I am proud to be part of it

Tessa x

Meet the team: Matt

In this week's meet the team, we hear from Matt, or as we like to call him, the tea boy. He's one of those guys who always seems to know someone to help with something, no matter what the issue is. A fundraiser, a fixer. Read on: Who are you?

I'm Matt, Simon's better looking brother. I'm 36 years old and I live in Derby with my amazing wife Elle and two awesome boys Ethan and Ashton. I've been working in logistics at Rolls-Royce for almost ten years now. My wife Elle works at Pride Veterinary Centre and my two boys attend Chellaston junior and Chellaston infant school and are both doing pretty well. These guys are my world.

I love football. I co-run a local football team and love watching the Rams at the stadium when I can, and Chelsea on the box. I love boxing too. I'd love to see a big fight in Las Vegas one day. I have a cross breed dog called Nikita who is now 13 years old but still going strong even if a little scatty.

How did I get involved?

As soon as my brother decided to go ahead with the Annabel's Angels idea I was 100% behind him and I always will be. Losing my sister-in-law Annabel hit me and all of us hard, and I can't imagine what my brother went through. I have so much respect,admiration and pride towards him. He is such an inspirational person and drives on others as did Annabel and its a testament to them both to gather such a great team with a vast amount of different skills. Obviously with being Simon's brother I will support him in anything he does so this was obviously a NO brainer.

How involved are you/ what do you do?

To be truly honest I am not as hands on as some of the other guys (who are amazing) but I attend every meeting and I am chief tea maker. I also sample and make sure all the biscuits and cakes are edible for the other members. I enjoy that part of the role. I chip in with the odd ideas for fundraising and also attend the community events  whenever I can. I like to think I have lots of contacts in the local area, people and businesses to call upon for support.

How do I think we are doing and what have we achieved?

For saying we are only approaching our first year it has been an amazing, emotional and truly fullfilling year. We have achieved so much from setting up all the Race for life events around the UK, my brother and his boys Will and Sam opening the Derby Race for life, the bucket collection at the Derby v Leeds game, bag packs at Asda, fun days at Betty's Farm, ongoing donations, sales and many more. One of the highlights for me was to be asked along with nine other local causes and charities to take part in the Guinness world record Grand Charity auction at the Westfield. This was such a privilege as we are such a new charity and any others could have been asked. But for me the highlight was the generosity of the people who donated all the prizes and lots to our cause ( it was truly unbelievable). To be tasked with getting 150 lots and already 4-5 months behind everybody else was always going to be difficult for us. But we managed to make the right contacts and pull the donations in.  Helping out on the day with our team and the volunteers from the other charities is something I will never forget.

But the proudest moment/moments have definitely been the 'giving back to others'. From the money we have raised through fund-raising, we have now provided the combined day unit with funding towards some new blood pumps, and also provided the Derby Breast Cancer Support Group with sufficient funds to purchase a range of specialist mastectomy bras ( around 35 ) for women post surgery. We will be passing on more funding to local groups in the coming months so WATCH THIS SPACE! My own personal highlight was running the four X runner 10k obtacle courses throughout 2013. Boy, was this tough, not just physically but mentally and emotionally too. I decided to raise money and awareness for Macmillan Cancer Support who helped Annabel so much during her cancer journey. With so much generosity from friends, family and work colleagues I raised a total of £1237 which I am very proud of.Bro

How do I see Annabel's Angels progressing?

I see Annabel's Angels progressing rapidly this year. We have a few more members to add to the committee team and we are looking at becoming an official charity later this year. We have loads more fundraising events happening including several bag packs at Asda, the Race for Life events, a firewalk, a Ben Nevis climb. There's even talk of a skydive. So watch this space. I would just like to keep giving back and helping any way I can with the charity and building on the relationships that we have with our friends Macmillan Cancer Support, the combined day unit, Derby Breast Cancer Support Group, Mummy's Star and hopefully many more.

I would also like to help people who are in different situations to my brother, e.g, single parents with cancer, people with cancer who might not have anyone to talk to, to help them share their thoughts, questions etc and to help families address the financial impact of living with cancer. Don't get me wrong, what my brother went through and still goes through from time to time is horrific and trust me I have witnessed it, but he has a large network of family and friends around him to get him to where he is today. But not everybody has that and they need that support and others to talk to, and hopefully we can do something to help address that. We need to remember too that it's not just the cancer patient going through hell, but also the husband/wife/partner/parent who automatically becomes a carer overnight and the worst case scenario if the person passes away means it's the husband/wife/kids that need some kind of support.

I hope I haven't bored anyone with this ramble. If you feel you could add to the team, have some ideas or just need a chat then please like and message the Annabel's Angels Facebook page. We'll be pleased to hear from you.

Here's to an exciting and hopefully great 2014.

Thanks for everybody that has supported, and is supporting, our charity, and to those who are helping my brother and the kids, and looking out for others affected by cancer. Let's keep it going.

Forever grateful

Matt.:-) X

Meet the team: Will

In this weeks 'meet the team' we hear from our very own nerdy website wizard Will (his own words). Take it away Will:

 

 

Who are you? I’m Will, I recently graduated from the University of Derby and I now live and work in London as a Marketing Executive.

How did you get involved?

I met Simon Hancox through volunteering for Community Action in Derby. We'd run a few social media workshops together and after the first one I started volunteering at Community Action on a permanent basis. We became good friends immediately through our mutual love of British film, cycling and real ales. Simon is easily one of the most selfless people I've ever met and someone who always had time for me. Even when he had more than enough going on in his own life, we would still make it out for a pint of Dutch courage and a long cycle. After Annabel passed away we became even closer friends, and as Annabel's Angels turned from an idea into a reality I was more than happy to get geeky for an amazing cause and a great group of people.

How involved are you/what do you do?

I manage the website for Annabel's Angels, and am basically the resident nerd of the group, which I'm fine with. I'm involved in the core meetings and decisions and join in at events wherever possible. I work in digital marketing full time, so naturally bring a lot of those skills to the group, along with an excellent bucket collection voice on days out (see video evidence!).

Give an example of what you've done and what you've learned since getting involved.

Since getting involved I’ve set up a website and blog for the charity and had input in tons of discussion about where the group is heading. I always loved volunteering, but working with Annabel’s Angels I have learnt that awesome things can happen if enough people want them to - the fact that the group is based all over the country yet improves constantly and stays close is testament to this. I also love the fact that I can only keep learning whilst helping out - as the group improves, so do I! There’s really not many chances you get to say that, and I’m grateful for it.

How do you see AA progressing?

What we are on the surface is a fundraising group; we raise money to help support causes and individuals affected by cancer. But what we are below that is a group of people who are all driven by ideas, a desire to help, and a great community of supporters. This is what will make Annabel’s Angels something that will only grow stronger and stronger. The increased support and coverage over the past year has been immense, and I think the current Annabel’s Angels set up is tiny in comparison with what we will be doing in 3, 5 or 10 years time. As the group develops so do all the members, and we are all willing to learn. I see awesome things happening with the website (we have big plans!) and I also see the support we offer growing into a solid service that will benefit many.

Meet the team - Denise

In this week's meet the team, it's the lovely Denise's turn to share her story about how and why she's involved with the charity. I too, like Dorothee and Ali, became a member of Annabel's Angels at the beginning of 2013 after meeting Annabel and the girls on the Macmillan forum in 2012 after we were all diagnosed with breast cancer.

After the initial feeling of terror and fear of dying I composed myself and gave myself a good talking to. With the help and support of a wonderful husband, great friends and family, I began the treatment journey that would absorb nearly a year of my life.

The old me was slowly disappearing and the new me has taken quite some time to get used to and is still evolving.

But out of this awful situation I found myself in, I made new friends with other ladies going through a very similar treatment plan experience to me on the Macmillan forum. So many offered support and comfort on the Macmillan chat forum.....we laughed, we cried, gave great advice and support and slowly grew new friendships online which we called “the class of 2012”.

The worst part online for me was seeing Annie40 as a title on a new thread and I had this awful feeling, which sadly was confirmed when I read that she had lost her battle with this awful disease. All I could think about was her husband, Simon, the children and her family and friends. Plus I was concerned as to how this would impact on all my lovely friends online....it brought it home to us all the reality and confirmation that this disease is a killer.

But 2013 was a new year which started with the amazing creation of Annabel’s Angels.............and how proud I am to be an angel!

Ali started the ball rolling with the Race For Life idea and all of our teams running under the name of Annabel’s Angels. Then all the great work and vision that Simon wanted from Annabel’s Angels has paid off through lots and lots of hard work during 2013.

My contribution came from not only getting a team together for Race For Life in Folkestone, but lots of craft fairs and fundraising events to help raise as much money as possible for such a worthy cause.

My organisational skills came into play when Simon asked if I would catalogue all the auction lots for the Guinness World Record Charity Auction event that Annabel’s Angels had been invited to join, which took place at the end of November in Derby. What a challenge this was, especially as my chemo brain was really bad, I hadn’t created a spreadsheet in over 18 months and where were we going to get 150 auction lots from in such a short space of time? But I didn’t want to let Simon down, as this could be the biggest fundraising event of the year, I had to think logically about who to contact to ask for items to sell. My friends and family didn’t disappoint.....items started rolling in....phew. What an amazing event this was raising thousands of pounds for the 10 charities and causes.

Annabel's Angels meet the team

What do I want from 2014..........well in February I will be two years on from diagnosis.......the breast cancer treatment has left it’s toll on my body and I am hoping to have an operation in the new year to help with my lymphoedema in my right arm. I am taking my hubby on a dream holiday to Canada, which will be out of this world plus I will also continue fundraising throughout the year and support Annabel’s Angels in any way I can.

One thing being diagnosed has taught me is never to take anything for granted because at any moment in time things can change. So I promise to share my love of life with as many people I can and have lots of wonderful times ahead.

Thank you

Denise xxx